Feel Your Edge:

An Exploration of Boundaries and Ethics

with Gillian Alexander and Sophia Frelau


Do you know where you begin and end?

Do you have a sense of your own needs?

Do you have a clear sense of what is yours and what belongs to another?

Do you have a clear sense of what is true for you?


We often don’t have answers to these questions and so we can find ourselves highly receptive to others telling us how we think and feel.  And we are more open to being swayed or to find ourselves in experiences that are not integrous for us.  When boundaries are transgressed this harms all parties.

In western tantra, or neo-tantra, a great deal is made about ‘submitting’, ‘surrender’ and letting go – but who, or what, are we submitting or surrendering to?  In this context people are invited into their vulnerability, to peel back layers and to expose their core.  In this space a great deal of trust and power is given in safe-keeping to the practitioner: to be in full service to their client and to maintain the boundaries on behalf of the client.  With great power come great responsibility ….

In this day we, Gillian and Sophia, will lovingly hold a sacred space within which you can explore who you are, what your needs and desires are, and where your boundaries lie.  You will be gently encouraged to explore the full extent of you and to sense into your edge and how it feels when you stay within your boundaries and when you gently stretch them……

The day is suitable for people, couples and individuals, who are interested in knowing themselves: it is for clients and practitioners, for lovers, and for you   ҉.


Held in Yoga Healing Glasgow,
Unit 7, Mansfield Park, 22 Mansfield Street, Glasgow, G11 5QP

On Sunday 20th April 2014, between 10:30am and 6pm.

The exchange for the day is £80
Spaces are limited to ten people for this event
– Your place is secured by full payment of £80.

To book contact Gillian at gillian@sacred-touch.co.uk or by phone on 07913 906 343.


Pay now by PayPal, or debit/credit card
(including PayPal admin fee)
– £87


The day will be lovingly facilitated by Gillian Alexander and Sophia Frelau.

Gillian has been facilitating training for more than 20 years. She has facilitated the Sacred Heart Tantra Group meetings, events and organisation in Scotland for almost 5 years since she set it up early in 2009. Her background is mainly in science and research (she holds a BSc in Biochemistry and a Masters in Public Health Medicine), in health service facilitation and management and as a shaman, masseuse and Dakini. She is an artful solution finder, motivator and inspirer of others, leading by example in living in her passion and embodying her power. She has studied extensively for the past three years with Dr Kenneth Ray Stubbs to develop her shamanic infrastructure and shamanic functioning and increasingly with Leanne Edwards to support embodiment of this shamanic functioning. She has also studied extensively with Shakti Malan and has taken part in a wide range of training in Tantra, Sacred Sexuality, Sexual Healing and Shamanic Practice, including ISTA (International School of Temple Arts) Sacred Sexual Shamanic Practitioner training.

Sophia trained in Meditation and Sacred Sexual Healing, as well as energy healing work (Lightwave, Reiki master/teacher). Yet it is her own inner work and devotion that allowed her true Soul’s ‘way’ to emerge & start blossoming. With a healing voice & a gentle yet powerful feminine energy, she now offers guidance & healing in the fields of Emotional De-Armouring, Soul Presence Attunement, Conscious Relationships, & Soulful Sexuality. While doing so, she still remains committed to her Soul’s healing and growth. She currently lives in France..





How to prepare . . .
Please come with an open heart, an open mind, a sense of humor, a sense of adventure and most importantly the intention to be fully present!

When to arrive . . .
The day begins at 10:30am and concludes at 6pm with approx 1 hour lunch break.
Please arrive at least 10 mins before the scheduled start time.

What is provided . . .
A safe and sacred space for magick to happen.
Tea, & Drinking Water

What to bring with you . . .
Loose comfortable clothes that you feel good in, temperatures may vary so bring layers. We will be sitting on the floor, dancing, moving and breathing  . . .

You are also encouraged to bring:
a journal/notebook and pen
special back support if you need it

What is required of you . . .
Your full participation!

Booking: Gillian – gillian@sacred-touch.co.uk

Group size: 10

Method of Payment . . .
Either by PayPal (via the payment button below), or by bank transfer (contact Gillian for details)
* Please ensure that all bank charges are deducted from your sending bank so that the full amount is received in GBP
* If you are paying by PayPal, please add an additional £7 pp fee

Private Sessions . . .
Gillian and Sophia are all available in the Glasgow and Ayrshire after the workshop for Private Shamanic Healing Sessions and/or Sexual Healing.

Single session woman
Single session man
Couple sessions

Sessions may be one on one, one on two or two on two.£100.00 per hour
(one on one or one on two)

£170 per hour
(two on one or two on two – Gillian and a colleague)

For more info regarding private sessions and consultancies please refer to Sacred Touch website:


Welcome, we look forward to ‘Feeling the Edge’ with you!
In One Heart . . .
Love & Blessings,
Gillian and Sophia


For further information please contact Gillian by email
on gillian@sacred-touch.co.uk or by phone on 07913 906 343,
or see www.sacred-touch.co.uk/events

We are so looking forward to sharing space with you!